How to be confident-Tips

Confidence is like the current which get produced when you work your body machine like turbine in one direction.I know I am sounding like a 16 year old boy who wants to get top in 12th class, but seriously one cannot get confidence unless he work according to his basics.One loose his/her confidence when they cultivate other ideologies and begin to survive rather to live.
Two major tips to get confident:
1> First thing one need to understand that life is mortal and a long photo-session.  Give up your feelings towards your close ones who seems couldn't get away somewhere( a hypothetical place where people goes for short period when you are angry). They bully you because they doesn't know you and tries to put themselves on you.So. be yourself first, irrespective of all odds. It may take days or years but then you are walking on uncultivated land!
2> Learn to say no.May be you feel relaxed to find the smile on your boss or your close ones face by finishing the work as they said but again you are tightening the confidence grains in your hand, making them fall unnoticeable.But don't avoid them as  you may end up as introvert or ascetic, just manage your time-table and set free yourself  for others.I am 100% sure when you say no to others for your work you are climbing the success stairs and your fear will galloped somewhere.

   I believe when some one reads my blog will send there fear somewhere rather there close ones.