How to be confident-Tips

Confidence is like the current which get produced when you work your body machine like turbine in one direction.I know I am sounding like a 16 year old boy who wants to get top in 12th class, but seriously one cannot get confidence unless he work according to his basics.One loose his/her confidence when they cultivate other ideologies and begin to survive rather to live.
Two major tips to get confident:
1> First thing one need to understand that life is mortal and a long photo-session.  Give up your feelings towards your close ones who seems couldn't get away somewhere( a hypothetical place where people goes for short period when you are angry). They bully you because they doesn't know you and tries to put themselves on you.So. be yourself first, irrespective of all odds. It may take days or years but then you are walking on uncultivated land!
2> Learn to say no.May be you feel relaxed to find the smile on your boss or your close ones face by finishing the work as they said but again you are tightening the confidence grains in your hand, making them fall unnoticeable.But don't avoid them as  you may end up as introvert or ascetic, just manage your time-table and set free yourself  for others.I am 100% sure when you say no to others for your work you are climbing the success stairs and your fear will galloped somewhere.

   I believe when some one reads my blog will send there fear somewhere rather there close ones.

Karesandra-A street which never sleeps

I have been staying in Karesandra from more than three years and I bet nothing has changed in this street. This street is divided into two halves, one side Hindus stays with one temple, one marriage hall and a BJP party meeting Hall while in other half  Muslims stays with one mosque, one Muslim marriage hall , a Madarsa and a congress meeting hall. Despite there national party differences, I have always seen secularism in this street.It may be Diwali or ID, love and faith cross religion boundaries to rejoice togetherness.
                                               One who loves silence may not like this place as shops are open for 24 hours violating Namma Bangaluru rules and dare devils young bike and bicycle riders can be seen doing wheely all round the clock.And when you go out from your room you can find all types of pet animals on streets like hen,dogs,goat,sheep,cow,cat , pigeon and even Turkey(HAA..HAA). But then if you are a non -vegetarian you can get to eat fresh chicken and red meat. Also, smokers like us never keep packets as any time  we can get our stuff(cool na). Market,bus-stop, parks and banks all are at walkable distance from karesandra.
All in all this  is heaven for the people like us who understands love and find peace in  friendly society.

Though I live alone but had never felt loneliness.Thank you Karesandra.