How to be confident-Tips

Confidence is like the current which get produced when you work your body machine like turbine in one direction.I know I am sounding like a 16 year old boy who wants to get top in 12th class, but seriously one cannot get confidence unless he work according to his basics.One loose his/her confidence when they cultivate other ideologies and begin to survive rather to live.
Two major tips to get confident:
1> First thing one need to understand that life is mortal and a long photo-session.  Give up your feelings towards your close ones who seems couldn't get away somewhere( a hypothetical place where people goes for short period when you are angry). They bully you because they doesn't know you and tries to put themselves on you.So. be yourself first, irrespective of all odds. It may take days or years but then you are walking on uncultivated land!
2> Learn to say no.May be you feel relaxed to find the smile on your boss or your close ones face by finishing the work as they said but again you are tightening the confidence grains in your hand, making them fall unnoticeable.But don't avoid them as  you may end up as introvert or ascetic, just manage your time-table and set free yourself  for others.I am 100% sure when you say no to others for your work you are climbing the success stairs and your fear will galloped somewhere.

   I believe when some one reads my blog will send there fear somewhere rather there close ones.

Karesandra-A street which never sleeps

I have been staying in Karesandra from more than three years and I bet nothing has changed in this street. This street is divided into two halves, one side Hindus stays with one temple, one marriage hall and a BJP party meeting Hall while in other half  Muslims stays with one mosque, one Muslim marriage hall , a Madarsa and a congress meeting hall. Despite there national party differences, I have always seen secularism in this street.It may be Diwali or ID, love and faith cross religion boundaries to rejoice togetherness.
                                               One who loves silence may not like this place as shops are open for 24 hours violating Namma Bangaluru rules and dare devils young bike and bicycle riders can be seen doing wheely all round the clock.And when you go out from your room you can find all types of pet animals on streets like hen,dogs,goat,sheep,cow,cat , pigeon and even Turkey(HAA..HAA). But then if you are a non -vegetarian you can get to eat fresh chicken and red meat. Also, smokers like us never keep packets as any time  we can get our stuff(cool na). Market,bus-stop, parks and banks all are at walkable distance from karesandra.
All in all this  is heaven for the people like us who understands love and find peace in  friendly society.

Though I live alone but had never felt loneliness.Thank you Karesandra.

A Tale Of Squirrel

It was around 12.00 am when i got up to enjoy my weekend and opened the gate to welcome the cloudy day. I stay in a single room on terrace and my bath-room is on the other side of terrace. As i was walking towards bathroom to fresh myself , i saw a mother squirrel was trying to climb up on the water-pipe holding the baby in her mouth. The pipe was bit slippery (due to rain) and narrow but she was trying hard to reach some safe dry place for her baby.Suddenly she stopped and i figured out easily that she was tired . After few second, she moved further but dis-balanced and fell down. I jumped to my feet forgetting all my sleepiness and waved my hand to catch them but couldn't reached.Then i saw mother Squirrel was hanging on a projected iron-bar and her baby was lying on the cemented ground floor. I thought she will use pipe to reach ground floor but to my surprise she quickly regained her balance and rushed towards the stairs. Few baffling question came in my mind that how she knew the stairs direction?How she could spot her injured baby from third floor to a deserted place in ground floor through stairs?Anyway i felt happy as she found that her baby was breathing and she hold it her mouth .I went toward my bathroom. When i came out after some 10 min i saw a mournful scene, both mother and baby were lying motionless at the same place in ground floor. I was cursing myself, i should have been there next time she tried to climb up through that hell iron pipe. After few minutes, the mother regained her sense and started checking her baby.But this time it was not breathing any more.She sat next to her baby as a statue for several minutes.That motionless period got over when i tasted something salty ,it wasn't rain.

Fake Encounter In Manipur

Good to see some fire from our 'Aam' jaanta in recent months. A 48-hour general strike called byApunb Lup( a social organization) in Manipur against the killing of a youth in an alleged fake encounter.The youth identified as Ch Sanjit (27) was a militant and killed in an encounter with police commandos on July 23 last at Imphal market complex, the social organisation claimed that he was innocent and killed in a fake encounter.Market,shops were almost closed.Even attendance was nil in government offices.
These action surely take those heartless police-men behind bar but the question is why we aam adami don't understand our power of unity? If we start taking active role against these evils done by our government and police force, very soon they understand there responsibilities. Remember these fellows whom we are cursing after the story gets over are no other then among us. A society can not flourish until everyone takes part in development equally disregarding there profession and caste.

Gay right in India?

No conclusion is going to come out when we sit and discuss this debatable topic. But getting right is one thing and getting acceptance is other. In India family comes first and just imagine if one of your brother /sister or any family member is engaged in gay relation, then how will you feel? Shame full isn't. But either you will break your relation or accept him/her. I feel later is better as breaking the relation can be done on physical level not on emotional level. Then why so much haterism for other? If we look on sexual level, this field is always experimental to satisfy one fantasy unless no one involved forcefully. Gay relation is truthful on love level too, as love has no boundary and indulge every living being. If you look on national level then it will be a better way to control birth-rate. Also,on medical level this isn't a disease and are conformed throughout the world.So, lets come all of us and support our friends who are not less then us in any field and give them there place in society.

Life when your salary is on-hold

It's not easy to face the situation when you won't receive your salary in first week of the month. Lets see how terrible life comes:

1.When you reach your home your landlord will be waiting for you with red face.

Believe me that time you will hate to see your own house.

2. Loans, credit-card bills will be keep reminding by untimely phone calls. Mobile will be your worst thing that time.

3.You will take the pledge to start saving money now on.

4.Marriage, birthday etc will be waiting for your gifts.

5.Your Girl-Friend will be asking for movie.

6. Suddenly your friends gets disappear to help you.

7. Your plans for outing will be crushed.

And many more terrible things which makes your life haphazard and immobile.I understand this because today is 17th and i am still waiting for my salary. Only thing you can do is pray to god and get well soon!!! haa..haaa Sorry for laughing but i am getting mad now.

HAAA......HAAAAA....

Rakhi ka Swayamvar

How far we Indian can be dramatic? Best example is"Rakhi ka Swayamvar" t.v serial, which is a block-buster now. It's really hilarious when some educated young men are making fun of a sacred relationship called marriage by kneeling down infont of a whore . Around 12000 men came for participation out of which 17 were shortlisted and more over no one was interested in getting married but to come on camera. Rakhi Sawant, who always comes in limelight when she sheds her cloths or getting involved in anti-social activities surprisingly serious about her marriage and that too by making fun of our customs . For her money is everything and that she is getting but we?? It's good to get some entertainment after a long hour of work but blindly getting happy may cause several incurable habits which will harm our next generation. Idiot-box will get more idiot if we idiots keep on acting as idiot.